Saturday 10 August 2013

How to Really Love a Woman

I really do not know why most men think they can love a woman, the mindset of what a man calls love and what a woman calls love are two different things. A woman constantly needs reassurance of love in the relationship. Many men however, still act like they are cavemen. What I mean is they are excited about the chase, and they will do anything to win the girl. Once they achieve that goal, the effort and the love begin to fade. Here are some tips on how to find the woman of your dreams, and if you already have her, some tips to keep her. 

 I LOVE YOU.

It is very necessary for you to tell your woman the 'three word'- I LOVE YOU. Tell her when she least expects it, and tell her often. A sure sign that you are not telling her enough, is if she asks you the question, "Do you love me?". The reason why she is asking is because she is unsure if you really do, so you can gain major points by telling her often. Do make it reminder for her either on phone, note or text.

NEVER BRING UP PAST RELATIONSHIPS

been in a relationship with your woman, you must live in the moment. What I mean is, do not dwell on the past. Never always bring up ex-boyfriends, ex-lovers or times you remember your girl was less than faithful. If you are committed to be in a relationship you need to be focus ahead of you and not look back. The easiest way to kill your relationship is to berate her over things that happened in the past. Let it go, or you will be soon letting her go.

Be yourself

Always endeavor to be yourself, love yourself. If you love or be yourself, you will receive love in return and she can be true to you . If you are telling yourself good things and loving the person you are, you can only express that same love to the woman in your life. She will see and feel your love and give it back to you ten fold.
Know her background
I take this very special and very seriously. Its necessary for you to know who your woman is , know where she is from . Always endeavor to get to know her better. I mean all her likes, dislikes, just take a genuine interest in her and watch a miracle happen. She will see you are interested in her brain and not just her body. She will see you in a whole new light.

Give them attention

Women love attention and if you not been careful about it, you will loose your woman .You do not have to be a puppy on a lease around her, just give her some unexpected attention. Tell her that her dress looks amazing, tell her that her hair looks nice, ask her how was her day, and genuinely pay attention.

Never go to bed angry

One final tip is to never go to bed angry. This can save your relationship if you practice it enough. If you ignore it, your fights will become more frequent and will eventually end the relationship. If you have a fight, cool off, then go to her before bed and tell her you love her and do not like fighting. Agree to disagree and sleep together in the bed. You need to both be grateful for every day you two are together. Try telling her everyday, in different ways that you love her. You will build a strong unit that will last a long time.

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